Keys On How To Start Living Life To The Fullest

By Freida Michael


While our lives come with no guarantee of happiness or fulfillment, developing certain attributes can help to put us on the right path. Honesty is one of these. Be honest, firstly with yourself and then with others around you. Do not just go along with what others expect of you. You will start understanding how to start living life to the fullest when you are completely honest about who you are and what you want.

Self acceptance is another key. Accepting yourself exactly as you are, letting go of the past and not worrying about the future, opens you up to experience the present. This helps you to savor each moment as it arises. Never be so stuck in memories of the past or plans for the future, that the little present moments slip away unnoticed.

It is important to remain flexible. Changes are inevitable and learning to flow with these instead of constantly trying to resist them, opens you up to new possibilities. Take advantage of every unexpected opportunity that arises. Challenge your comfort zones and you will find you are stretched and enriched. You can start small, simply by taking a new route to work or going to a different restaurant. This will give you courage to make bigger and bigger changes.

It is often the simple pleasures in life that enrich it immeasurably. Take long walks, read good books, spend time with loved ones and get rid of other complications that steal your time. Perhaps you could choose to turn down some overtime work in favor of taking your children to the aquarium or get rid of some of the clutter in your home so as to really enjoy what remained.

The fact that we need to be flexible enough to embrace change, does not mean that we should not have goals. Deciding what you want out of life is an important step towards attaining it. However, set your goals clearly, make sure they are not influenced by the expectations of others and make them attainable. As they are achieved, self worth grows and a great sense of fulfillment is gained.

It is important to take care of your body so that you have the health to experience all things fully. This means eating a healthy diet, exercising and getting enough sleep. Constant over-indulgence may be enjoyable for a while but the enjoyment does not last. Being a workaholic may bring financial rewards but is the sacrifice of precious time really worth it?

When we choose to live selfishly, we deny ourselves the joy that comes from sharing our lives with those who matter to us. This sharing can bring the greatest sense of fulfillment. Let loved ones in, give them your attention and time, be unselfish and you will experience the rich reward.

None of us know what lies ahead of us. We have to face what comes with courage and passion. Cultivating honesty, self awareness, flexibility, goal setting, caring for self and unselfishness in relationships will enhance the journey. You will be able to experience a sense of fulfillment and live life as it should be lived.




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